What do you understand by a black belt? Is it just an achievement to flaunt and show all or tell that my child got a black belt or is it a symbol of sacrifice, training and some specific level of understanding, maturity and fluency in skill. Traditionally children were never given black belts. I think black belts were only given to those who were above 16 or 18 years of age and has the skill set to be awarded it. Nowadays in the age of commercialization where black belt gradings are charged anywhere between 20,000/- to 50,000/- and higher it is good money to confer black belts. Many organisations give junior black belts to kids below 16 or 18 and then after 16 or 18 they have to again pay and appear for an exam to be called a black belt. Why is this double examination needed? Money is important but there should be a line drawn somewhere. Parents also need to understand this and not pressurize or change classes just because their child is not getting belts or a bl...
In the rat race of life most of us neglect our own personal safety and security. Those that value their own safety and train for it are often called paranoid, obsessed or delusional by others. Ask yourself, if at this very moment you are physically attacked, are you capable of defending and also maybe immobilizing the attacker? If you are out with your family members and loved ones, can you protect them, if attacked? Have you discussed with them about how to respond and react to such situations? If your answer is unsure or a big no, then sadly you are just a victim waiting to happen. Crime is increasing in most if not all parts of the world, if our attitude is laidback and we say or think things like - it won't happen to me, it's too much hard work, I don't have time for all this, I am too old to start now, etc. Then we do not value our ownself and the gift of life that we are given. Security has many facets and layers to it. Which are interconnected and di...